In brief
The Modern Love column, turning 20 this month, continues to illuminate human experiences of finding, losing, and sustaining love, with tales ranging from exotic animal training in marriage to tender last wishes for companionship.
The Modern Love column, a beloved feature in literary journalism, celebrates its 20th anniversary this month. As editor Daniel Jones reflects, this collection of narratives offers intimate glimpses into the complexities of love. Launched with a story of heartbreak by Steve Friedman, the column has become an exploration of human emotion, touching on three primary themes: finding love, losing love, and the day-to-day efforts of keeping love alive. Among its standout essays is Amy Sutherland's account of applying animal training tricks to improve marital harmony, underscoring the creativity often required to maintain relationships. Another memorable piece by Mandy Len Catron, shared how intimate questions can expedite falling in love—a method tested by numerous readers to great effect. In a poignant essay by Amy Krouse Rosenthal, written just before she passed, she sought a companion for her spouse, offering a unique portrayal of love’s enduring nature even in the face of life’s greatest challenges. Each story not only fascinates but educates, revealing both the trials and the triumphs of love.